deconstruction

so my sister and i were talking and the subject of love came up. i found a perfect chance to deconstruct the word love. i asked her wat it means and she said it doesn't exist. i asked her what does it mean for people love not to exist. she said that people make up their own feelings and put a label on it. so i said what does it mean to make something up? she said it is to make something out of nothing!! these you go, love has just been deconstructed!!